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ORIGINAL: TechmanBD Back to the grind. What are you in for? studying I mean. floating trip? is that with tubes? I have done that before. It took 5 hours to go about 5 miles down this river. We got an extra tube and threw a cauge in it. then tied all our tubes around it. Good Times. Not this time. We had canoes. I wish we would have went whitewater rafting instead, something with a little excitement to it. It took 9-10 hours to get done with each river. We spent a day on each. I discovered on the second trip that I have a little problem with my right shoulder due to an old injury. |
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ORIGINAL: RLSH700 ORIGINAL: Jeremiah 29:11 Well we finally had a rainy day after nonstop triple digit temperatures a big part of the summer. Business was slow in the high tech world but is looking better. School is back in session so most of the family is busy doing that. We did go to the beach for 4 days and floated down a nice cool river on another weekend. Those were nice breaks. I really wanted to go the the US Virgin Islands but we got busy and hurricane season started and I didn't want to get caught in that mess. My youngest is finishing an Electrical Engineering degree this year. Since we are a close family and chances are upon graduation the job will be out of Texas and as such this summer was the last summer at home........helping with the move back to college was the most difficult time for me since the house is much quieter. I have had a really tough time of it since last Tuesday. In general busy but a fun summer. So you are in the process of having to adapt to a life with all your kids grown up. My parents are going to have to deal with that in a year and a half (or maybe not if my brother never gets a job). So are you going to try to move accordingly to where your kids live or will you just stay where you currently are and let them visit you when they have the chance. I think my parents might move depending on what my brother does. I have told my parents that I like the area where I currently am at a lot better than the town they live in. My parents have been discussing the possibility of moving eventually depending on what my brother does. The toughest part was my youngest will not be living with us anymore but he still has a year of school left. No, we will not be following them as their High Tech jobs could take them anywhere and I have my own High Tech career I have to deal with. We have done the best we can with them and I am very proud of them. I have to let go and let them grow up. If I was not around anymore, they would do just fine and of course they both have God in their hearts. I have gone from being a supporting parent to a supportive parent and that is the way it should be. |
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I'm glad to hear your taking this so well. Is your wife taking it well also? My mom has the worst time when I return to school. I keep telling her she needs to get a job to keep herself busy to help her but she doesn't want to. My dad is normally in a bad mood so he is hard to read at times.;) I know my dad has always wanted to move where I'm currently at but hasn't due to work and for my mom (he must really love her a lot to stay in that stupid town near her nutty relatives...okay rant off).
You sound like you've done a great job as a father. Congrats to you, Jeremiah. |
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ORIGINAL: 1 Bad Mirada nothing...i put new rotors on my car, and i wrestled with her truck ALOT...until i finally gave up and took the truck to a shop...it needed a new timing cover, and i just plain got too lazy. |
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ORIGINAL: RLSH700 I'm glad to hear your taking this so well. Is your wife taking it well also? My mom has the worst time when I return to school. I keep telling her she needs to get a job to keep herself busy to help her but she doesn't want to. My dad is normally in a bad mood so he is hard to read at times.;) I know my dad has always wanted to move where I'm currently at but hasn't due to work and for my mom (he must really love her a lot to stay in that stupid town near her nutty relatives...okay rant off). You sound like you've done a great job as a father. Congrats to you, Jeremiah. As far as being a father, I just let God help me do that job. You have to love your kids and have a great relationship, show them God's way then you can put up barriers for them to follow. Most parents these days don't put up barrier and if they do they expect them to follow them without have a great relationship first. Of course, then kids rebel. Can you imagine a football game without rules, the game would be in disarray and dangerous and players would get hurt or killed. Well, that is what is happening to our kids that are not loved (the reason gangs happen is they want to be part of a family) and don't have rules......they are getting killed. You know when you let yourself be God centered and not self centered, it is amazing how life goes so much smoother and blessings are sent your way. |
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ORIGINAL: Jeremiah 29:11 Actually, my wife is totally fine with it. I guess I am just a softy that way. The wife actually does work at a school so she keeps busy. As far as being a father, I just let God help me do that job. You have to love your kids and have a great relationship, show them God's way then you can put up barriers for them to follow. Most parents these days don't put up barrier and if they do they expect them to follow them without have a great relationship first. Of course, then kids rebel. Can you imagine a football game without rules, the game would be in disarray and dangerous and players would get hurt or killed. Well, that is what is happening to our kids that are not loved (the reason gangs happen is they want to be part of a family) and don't have rules......they are getting killed. You know when you let yourself be God centered and not self centered, it is amazing how life goes so much smoother and blessings are sent your way. I completely agree with you about the mistake parents are making. I see people my age who are parents that refuse to set up barriers because they hated how their parents did set up barriers. When they get to be teenagers, they are going to be monsters. In order for the children to feel completely loved they need both parts, regular love and tuff love. Without the other, they are incomplete. The reason why I never rebelled against my parents was they did set up reasonable barriers and were supportive when I needed them to be. I respected them because I really felt that they were concerned about my best interests because we trusted each other. One of the best examples I ever got about what your life is like without God was a flower pot example that a pastor showed me in high school (I went to a private H.S.). "The contents of the flower pot is what your life. People who don't have God have an empty flower pot, but they try to fill it up with money, power, materialism, Brittany Spears (we loved that joke) water represents these things which pours out of the holes, but when we have God the soil then we don't have room for money, power, materialism, more Brittany Spears because they are already fulfilled." |
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ORIGINAL: RLSH700 ORIGINAL: 1 Bad Mirada nothing...i put new rotors on my car, and i wrestled with her truck ALOT...until i finally gave up and took the truck to a shop...it needed a new timing cover, and i just plain got too lazy. i also did alot of work to her truck...new exhaust, "super high flow cat", MSD 6AL ignition and coil, underdrive pulleys, AC delete, electric fans, performance computer, cai... |
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ORIGINAL: 1 Bad Mirada the stratus...i bought fancy slotted/drilled rotors with new ceramic pads, and i painted my calipers...looks nicer now... i also did alot of work to her truck...new exhaust, "super high flow cat", MSD 6AL ignition and coil, underdrive pulleys, AC delete, electric fans, performance computer, cai... Sounds like Amanda's truck will be one fun truck to drive. BTW, I know an AC delete improves performance and fuel economy, but what will she do during the summer time, or do you guys live in an area where it doesn't get very hot? |
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ORIGINAL: 1 Bad Mirada ORIGINAL: RLSH700 ORIGINAL: 1 Bad Mirada nothing...i put new rotors on my car, and i wrestled with her truck ALOT...until i finally gave up and took the truck to a shop...it needed a new timing cover, and i just plain got too lazy. i also did alot of work to her truck...new exhaust, "super high flow cat", MSD 6AL ignition and coil, underdrive pulleys, AC delete, electric fans, performance computer, cai... Now I am depressed[&o]. You made me think of my old truck. I am going to go home and to bed. |
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ORIGINAL: RLSH700 ORIGINAL: 1 Bad Mirada the stratus...i bought fancy slotted/drilled rotors with new ceramic pads, and i painted my calipers...looks nicer now... i also did alot of work to her truck...new exhaust, "super high flow cat", MSD 6AL ignition and coil, underdrive pulleys, AC delete, electric fans, performance computer, cai... Sounds like Amanda's truck will be one fun truck to drive. BTW, I know an AC delete improves performance and fuel economy, but what will she do during the summer time, or do you guys live in an area where it doesn't get very hot? the stratus brakes were STOCK...and i consider 4.5 years and around 60,000 out of stock brakes, especially considering how i drive, to be pretty good..the OEM rotors are very expensive, and i found this company that sells the "performance" rotors, and it does stop better... TechmanBD: Damn, her truck must kick arse. Is it 4x4? I miss my 96 Ram I had. It was green, standard cab, 4x4 with the 5.2L. Those are the years I really liked the look of. Now I don't with the newer models. Now I am depressed . You made me think of my old truck. I am going to go home and to bed. a few weeks ago we took the truck to a REALLY awful local track, and i had put the stock stuff back on, with the intention of getting a baseline, then swapping parts and such, but i forgot the box of parts to swap...it ran 15.50s with the stock computer, stock pulleys, AC, stock ignition, and stock rims with 32" truck tires...we will be running it in a few weeks at a much better track, and it will have 26" drag radials on it, giving it better traction, and the much smaller tires should effectively change the final drive from 392 to 419...which should make a tremendous difference, plus the computer, pulleys, AC delete, and ignition should really help..i have also tuned it up since then..those 15.50s runs were with plugs that were 6 years old...[:'(] |
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