While I can admit a passing glance once in a while at other women I would NEVER consider anyone else but my wife. I deeply love her and know that I am a lucky man to have found her. It is human nature to notice an attractive woman and this also happens with women noticing men. It doesn't mean a thing unless one wonders what it would be like to have them. These are two completely different things. I think God gave us this recognition factor but our own will determines whether we notice that an individual is attractive or pursue it further than that. God made us all human and gave us all free will.