That's okay, I've been busy too trying to find and apartment and seeing people I haven't seen in a long time.

This is one of the most important lessons. I believe that in order for the marriage to work in most cases, the husband should be the head; however, the husband needs to remember that being incharge is not the same as being in the royal family where everyone will do everything for you because you ask, it is a position of responsibility. Being the husband and father means standing up for your family if they are being unfairly attacked. Standing up to the attacker is not easy and sometimes will cause certain people to dislike you, but defending the family in a reasonable manner is one of the most important responsibilities. This role requires many sacrifices as Jesus made sacrifices for the church.