deepsouth..why would you put a deposit down and then back out of buying it??????? ok 1st how much over invoice were you going to pay???? if you were only about 5k over you could handle it 2 different ways...1st is to tell them about all the dealers that are getting 20k over and explain to them how much they could make by selling it to someone else...2nd is buy it and sell it yourself.......ooops there is a 3rd way...contact the owner of the dealer and explain to him the reason you purchased from someone else and ask for forgiveness.....
4th give it to your wife and have a his and hers......good luck Joani