RE: I'm getting a bit disappointed...
I would tend to agree that if you're much over 35 grand on an R/T, you might want to start looking at the SRT. Especially if you can get an 08 SRT at sticker. I think R/T should be selling near sticker soon (if not already), although with the right options checked you can quickly reach the 35ish range.
The "J" package with the leather interior is 2 grand, and most dealers would probably add that to the majority of cars they order for stock. Sunroof, stick shift, electronics package, 20" wheels are all about a grand each, so one could easily get overzealous and wind up around 37.