Bro, I know exactly the feeling, although mine took another path in the end. I had ordered an '09 back in May, finally got a vin in early September, then after it was built, neither the dealer nor Chrysler could track it down or tell me where it was. So, rather than continue waiting, I went out and found an 08 in Salt Lake for MSRP, had it shipped to WA, and was rewarded in getting more car at less money, even with the shipping. (I hadn't ordered a sunroof, but have one now, and the '09's base price was higher)
Glad it worked out for ya! It's kinda messed up that neither the Dealer nor Chrysler could track the car down! Go figure!
So in the end, 70sGuy hits it on the mark, this car is SO WORTH THE WAIT, not matter if it's killing you. You'll soon experience what we all have said many a time, THE GRIN is incredible.
I know you guy's are right, the waiting is just hard.