Here is something you guys might try.
Go to the red bar at the top of the forum and click on:
User CP (control panel)
Settings and Options
Edit Options
and scroll down to Private Messaging and click on what you want changed.
Let me know if that helps.
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For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.