I think it depends on the kid. Growing up I never got into any real trouble and my parents still would not let me drive until about a little over a year ago. I never was arrested or was brought home in the back of the police cruiser, rarely went out with friends, never drank or smoked or did any drugs. But my parents still would not teach me how to drive, even though I was very responsible. So I think there is a balance. Unless it is necessary, wait until your child has the maturity level to respect the seriousness of driving. And if they can't and they still want to get a car, that can be on their head, let them get a job and buy a car themselves. My sister was pretty much the same way I was, and when it came time for her to go to college my parents still didnt get her a car. So she juggled a full college course load and two pt time jobs and bought a 99 VW bug (silver) which she still has. She graduated tied for top of her class and will soon be a lawyer. My parents offered no apologies, and they should not have. The expereince built character for her and she appreciates money and cars as all people should; as precious resources that should not be taken lightly. Hopefully the "tradition" will continue with my kids if I ever have any.